
Wow your hostess with a small indulgence.
We’re just about partied out and yet we have one more to go … a friend is giving a bash to ring in 2010. Since we’re also just about shopped out, we have a hostess gift quandary: What to bring? A bottle of wine is fine, but not exactly original. Thankfully, celeb party planner Jes Gordon, author of Party Like a Rock Star (GPP Life, 2009), is never short of ideas. “I usually go for something unique or indulgent,” she says. “I look for the stuff people want but don’t usually buy for themselves.” Following is Gordon’s list of favorite hostess gifts.
Glasses and cups: Gordon likes quirky shot glasses in the shape of animals from A Plus R ($32). If you have a hostess who doesn’t indulge in shots, though, try the I Am Not a Paper Cup ceramic cup ($20).
Indulgent paper products: “Everyone needs gorgeous notebooks and pens, but doesn’t want to buy them,” Gordon says. Check out a local stationery store, Vickerey or even Target.
Games: Old-school board games are useful and nostalgic, especially appropriate for ringing in another year. For extra grown-up and classy games, try Restoration Hardware (from $34.49).
Personalized sneaks: Some may say it’s bold to give a pair of shoes, but you’re actually giving a gift certificate. Go to nikeid.nike.com for info (from $80).
Anything that gives back: For example, Kristen McCloud jewelry (from $85) or any of the other bracelets and necklaces that donate a portion of proceeds to cancer research, environmental causes or humanitarian efforts.
Gift certificates: A gift certificate for a manicure is always welcome. In fact, Gordon is a fan of gift certificates and gift cards of any kind. “It’s like money and money is always useful,” she says. Of course, we like VIVmag gift subscriptions.
Photos: It’s OK to give after the fact. “At the party, purposely take a beautiful photo of the hostess and then send it to her in a frame. We all need a few flattering photos of ourselves,” Gordon says.
Sweat equity: Last but not least, Gordon says giving with effort and time is A-OK, especially this year. “Tell your hostess that as your gift to her, you’re going to help clean up,” says Gordon. “Remember, though, that you have to stay sober to be truly helpful.”
With so many good ideas, now we just have to whittle it down to one (or go to a lot more parties). What do you bring to your favorite hosts and hostesses? What is the most memorable hostess gift you’ve ever received?
Photo credit: Muharrem Oner
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One Reader Comment:
awesome ideas…i usually just bring a bottle of wine!