VIV Extras

> <

Giveaways

Win Oscar Blandi Hair Products!
Five lucky winners will each receive dry shampoo spray and glossing cream (a $42 total value!).

Playlists

J. Lo Does Everything Better With Trainer Mark Blanchard
As featured in the July/August 2010 issue of VIVmag, athlete turned yogi Mark Blanchard has practiced for more than 30

Recipes

Nancy Silverton's Family-Style Antipasto Salad
This quick, simple dish was adapted from one of Silverton's favorite recipes.

VIV Moments

Kathi Calahan

kathi-calahan

Hometown

Arizona

Joie de VIVre

Kindness, forgiveness, understanding, believing

VIV Moment

I was weak and dying from breast cancer. I had fought so hard, but had no physical strength or spiritual fortitude left to continue. “Take me home, God, PLEASE,” I cried. “This slow death is too hard to endure. Don’t punish me, I can’t do it anymore. I’d rather be dead.”

My VIV Moment came only after I survived and was able to look back in hindsight. I lived because I let go and gave into God’s will. For once in my life, fighting was not the answer.

Today, I know that Spirit and the love and prayers of others gave me the strength that my damaged body could not produce. I know that I am never alone and that the care and belief of others can save a life.

I have changed deeply as a result of looking death in the face, and today, I pray for the well-being of others. This is new for me. Today I care about more than just myself. I extend kindness and forgiveness daily, knowing that we all make mistakes and are only human. I try to understand my own and others’ motivations.

My VIV Moment brought me a God I can finally embrace and trust, and today I am content and loved. I am truly blessed and grateful.

10 Reader Comments:

06.15.2009 at 4:45 am
Posted by Miss Linda

What an Awesome story! Thank you for sharing it. =))

06.17.2009 at 9:01 am
Posted by Tammy K

Very touching! It made my day reading this! This story sends a message to many of us.We all need to be more thankful and understanding. And not take life for granted.

Tammy K

06.17.2009 at 9:44 am
Posted by DD

really enjoyed reading this story.you are an amazing person.

06.17.2009 at 9:02 pm
Posted by wayne

Great Story! You Are A Wonderful Person!

06.18.2009 at 8:07 am
Posted by Danalee

This is such a great story! It brings tears to my eyes,but tears of joy. I am so sorry to hear about your illness. I am so happy to hear that you have so much faith. Sometimes we (I) tend to take things for granted. This story makes me think about the positive things in life. Thank you so much for touching my heart with your story!….
Danalee

07.01.2009 at 8:23 am
Posted by kaylee

You sound like a very strong and wonderful person.
Thank you for sharing.
I loved reading your story……kaylee

07.02.2009 at 12:04 pm
Posted by anonymous

Very inspiring !

07.05.2009 at 8:32 am
Posted by Tianna

I wish you the absolute best !

07.11.2009 at 9:36 am
Posted by Joey

I just want to thank you for sharing this story.

After all you have been through,and you took the time to share with others and make us aware.

You are very strong and I admire that.

07.14.2009 at 10:22 am
Posted by Denny

Now this story really touches my heart .I love the way you wrote this and how you tell about turning to God .

He is amazing ! And miracles do happen.

He blessed you with the strength to share your story.

It really makes people think.We should be more grateful and forgiving to others.

What a lovely story.Thank you ever so much for sharing it. Stay strong and may God continue to bless you in many many ways !

Denny St. Paul MN

Leave a Comment